Who are we, to judge others?

Everyone judges others on how they look, how they dress, how they talk and what they do. It even seems like something every human being was given when they were born and something they can never really change about ourselves. It's now the matter of how we deal with it. As harsh as judgment feels like to you or us, we are nothing different from them. It'd be a complete lie if we say we don't judge people like others. Think again. You do, a lot actually.

Okay, so how do we deal with judgment?
I'm not going to be fed up with you like, "don't judge others", because that's almost impossible.

Try not to give a damn

Most of us say we don't give a sh*t about what others say about us, but do we actually not give a sh*t? We often get hurt, start to hate them, look back on ourselves and feel sh*t about ourselves. We can't call that 'not giving a sh*t', that is exactly what giving a sh*t means. I might be right or I might be wrong, but hear me out.

You can't completely ignore and not be affected at all when you hear others say sh*t about you. But I believe there are ways to give less sh*t. Take a quick look at those who judge you, are they any better than you in any way? As cliché as it may sound, judgment merely grows out of jealousy. Hence, my suggestion for you is to feel good about yourself in whatever you do and gain some confidence.

"True confidence has no room for jealousy and envy. 

When you know you are great, you have no reason to hate."

Spend time for self-improvement

Another thing. Maybe you're not good enough just yet. If you're too good, they wouldn't even have the courage to hate you because it's only gonna make them more and more miserable about themselves. If you have time to give a damn about what they say, use that time to self-enriching. Find what you like and make moves to it.

Take some as good advice

Your haters might know you more than you think they do, surprising ay? They constantly stalk your facebook, instagram, snapchat or whatsoever that you use, to find out what you're doing with your life. It's never wrong to listen to what they say and look back on your life, some negative say about you might really be your shortcoming that you never knew about. In that way, it gives you a chance to step out of your zone and go forward to be a better person.

I don't personally know you, but I know one thing for sure. You're a wonderful human being and don't let anyone take that away from you. Always stay full of yourself.

Who are we to judge others anyway, keep moving forward with your life.